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CABINET MEETING ON DIASPORA — Diaspora requested to participate.

Posted by Administrator on January 27, 2012

REPUBLIC OF KENYA

OFFICE OF THE PRIME MINISTER

27th January, 2012

RE: DIASPORA STAKEHOLDERS MEETING

The Prime Minister of Kenya RH Raila Odinga will be chairing a Diaspora Stakeholders cabinet meeting on February 1st, 2012 at his office in Nairobi. The purpose of the meeting is to gather views as well as come up with resolutions that are specific to Diaspora participation in the forthcoming general elections.

Members of the Kenya Diaspora have been requested to participate in advance by sending their views or issues in regard to this subject to John Maina using the following email: jmaina(at)primeminister.go.ke

The emails you send regarding Diaspora Registration and Voting will be shared in this cabinet meeting. Please limit your email to a paragraph or less and be specific.

John Maina

Diaspora Affairs Advisor,

Office of the Prime Minister,

Harambee avenue,

Nairobi, Kenya

 

Email: jmaina @ primeminister.go.ke

Tel: +254-(0)20-3247000 Ext. 047

www.kenyadiaspora.go.ke

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Kenyans will vote electronically – IEBC

Posted by Administrator on January 27, 2012

Mr Joseph Kinyua (left), PS Ministry of Finance and IEBC Chairman Ahmed Issack Hassan during the official signing of a project document for support to electoral reforms and processes in Kenya at Treasury building, Nairobi, Friday. Photo: Jonah Onyango/Standard

Mr Joseph Kinyua (left), PS Ministry of Finance and IEBC Chairman Ahmed Issack Hassan during the official signing of a project document for support to electoral reforms and processes in Kenya at Treasury building, Nairobi, Friday. Photo: Jonah Onyango/Standard

The Independent Electoral and Boundaries Commission (IEBC) has said it will embrace Electronic Voting Systems in the forthcoming General Elections to avoid a repeat of ballot stuffing and other malpractices experienced in the 2007 polls.

IEBC Chairman Ahmed Issack Hassan said elections needed a credible management system adding many African countries were now embracing electronic voting.

Many countries are now seeing the value in embracing technology in managing elections,” said Hassan.

He said that the electronic system was more transparent and made it easy to monitor election malpractices.

Hassan was speaking at the Treasury where the IEBC signed a project document to support electoral reforms and processes funded by donors to the tune of Sh11 billion.

He said the commission would in a fortnight advertise the tender for the electronic voting systems, which will be sourced from the most competent bidder.

Hassan said the commission and its predecessor had tested an electronic voter registration system in several constituencies adding the system captures a voter’s information electronically and uses this to create digital registers.

He said the commission introduced the now popular Electronic Voter Registration (EVR) and Electronic Vote Transmission (EVT) systems, both which have successfully been used in the referendum and a number of by-lections with results being announced in a matter of hours.

“That’s why we are pushing for the electoral body to embrace technology in registration of voters, transmission and display of results,” said Hassan.

He said the benefits of Electronic voting which is an evolving technology are clear adding that it reduces cases of double listing and fraud.

Finance PS Joseph Kinyua, IEBC acting CEO James Oswago, IEBC Vice –Chair and UNDP resident representative Aeneas Chuma were also present.

Kinyua said that the government was committed to ensuring that the elections are free and fair.

He said that political stability was critical in any country’s development agenda adding that instability scared away investors.

“The 2007-08 crisis was a wake up call for the country to get it right this time round,”

said Kinyua.

Kinyua said IEBC needed more resources to ensure that the required reforms in the electoral process are achieved.

He said funds allocated to the government by various donors for use by line agencies must be utilised in a transparent manner.

SOURCE: http://www.standardmedia.co.ke/InsidePage.php?id=2000050898&cid=4&ttl=Kenyans+will+vote+electronically+-+IEBC

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The flipside of wealth in Kenya

Posted by Administrator on January 27, 2012

A man pushes a wheelbarrow through Nairobi

A man pushes a wheelbarrow through Nairobi’s Kibera, a vast shack settlement that lacks even basic services. Many of the residents are angry that while prices of food have risen, wages have not. Only a few of them can afford to make their way to a mall to buy tiny portions of food. Pictures: Reuters

IN A cafe on the terrace of a Nairobi mall, well-heeled Kenyans sip coffee as shoppers in the car park navigate between BMW X5s and Toyota Landcruisers. A nearby cinema last month advertised an array of Hollywood fare including Brad Pitt’sMoneyball.

Sales at this Java House outlet along the Ngong Road were up last year, says Kevin Ashley, a Californian who co-founded the chain of 14 coffee houses 13 years ago. Kenya’s rich and new middle classes have a growing taste for lattes and ice cream.

That’s just one sign that African states such as Kenya are changing. Even as rich countries face a slowdown, sub-Saharan African economies are expected to post nearly 6 percent average growth in 2012, according to the International Monetary Fund.

A study by the International Finance Corporation, part of the World Bank, has pointed to the potential of the continent’s more than 1 billion people, millions of whom have moved out of subsistence agriculture and into urban jobs over the past decade. Such promise has helped fuel foreign investment.

Kenya alone has had a capital influx of billions of dollars in recent years: the latest official figures show around $800 million (R6.4 billion) came in in 2008.

But the wealth on show at the mall has a flip side. The consumption boom has been fuelled by fast-growing credit. In Kenya and elsewhere that has sucked in imports – cars, shoes, clothes, wines and whiskies – and swelled the current account deficit. Inflation in Kenya is now nearing 20 percent.

As always, high inflation hurts the poorest most.

An interior view of a Nairobi Java House outlet in Nairobi. Kenya’s rich and new middle classes have a growing taste for coffee and ice cream. That s just one sign that African states such as Kenya are changing.

An interior view of a Nairobi Java House outlet in Nairobi. Kenya’s rich and new middle classes have a growing taste for coffee and ice cream. That s just one sign that African states such as Kenya are changing.

Java House employs 700 workers and plans to open new outlets soon, but its co-owner worries about price rises. The cost of sugar, electricity and petrol has doubled. A volatile currency has fed into coffee prices, which are paid in dollars. A sack of green coffee costs close to $500, up from $150-$200 a sack three years ago.

Dangerous

“This particular case right now of inflation is a dangerous phase,” Ashley says. People who were taking a bus to work may now walk, somebody who was driving may take a bus, and somebody who was eating in Java might now carry their own food to work.

The risk is that Africa’s consumers are harvesting their gains before their economies can bear it, economic analysts say. As more people see inequalities widen, that could fuel unrest.

“Minimum-wage earners in urban centres in east Africa are encountering a simply unprecedented squeeze,” said Aly Khan Satchu, a Nairobi-based independent trader and analyst, and himself solidly middle class. Inflation was a major concern, he said.

“It creates a sort of reverse Robin Hood effect where the poor carry the main burden.”

Western investors have become accustomed to Africa as a boom story in recent years. As demand from places such as China and Brazil pushed up commodity prices, investment poured in. Since the financial crisis, investors have ventured into Africa in search of higher returns.

In Kenya, firms have been hiring and property prices have risen exponentially, creating a feel-good factor for homeowners, especially in towns and cities. That, in turn, has fed the appetite for consumer goods.

“Africa is about consumers,” Stephen Murphy, managing director at private equity firm Citadel Capital, told a conference in Nairobi last month.

“It is about high-impact infrastructure investing and it is certainly about value-added exports and not just commodity exports.”

But not everyone has welcomed the growth. Food prices – especially meat – have risen sharply. In a rain-soaked field outside the Kenyan capital, it’s easy to see why. Farmer Joseph Kiarie puts the fertiliser on his crop of cabbages by hand from a plastic bucket, and says rising costs have cut his earnings by two thirds in the past year.

“This has been a terrible year,” he said.

Razia Khan, the head of Africa research at Standard Chartered in London, says the problem is an Africa-wide one.

“More rapid growth was accompanied almost everywhere by a surge in imports, especially capital goods imports related to infrastructure development.”

Like other African countries, Kenya has yet to make good use of the capital pouring into the country and encourage manufacturing.

“It is good if people think Kenya is a good place to park their money, but what Kenya needs most is long-term investments that go into productive industries,” said Wolfgang Fengler, the lead economist at the World Bank office for Kenya.

Unlike countries such as Ghana, Nigeria or Zambia, Kenya does not have significant mineral or oil resources. But its economy has been lifted by infrastructure investment – including a high-speed internet connection.

That should help spread the wealth, and is attracting home thousands of skilled, educated Kenyans, many of whom work in the booming financial sector.

Satchu, the trader and analyst, is one of them. He returned five years ago after working with various banks in London all his adult life, at one point managing a balance sheet in excess of $17bn for Sumitomo Bank.

When he first returned, Satchu went straight to Mombasa, a port city on the Indian Ocean. In the back garden of his home he erected a 52m tower to get a decent connection to the internet – speeds via commercially available internet service providers were capped at 32 kilobytes a minute – and access the New York Mercantile Exchange. A neighbour was so puzzled he asked Satchu if he was prospecting for oil.

In 2009, though, a high-speed undersea cable plugged Kenya into the global grid. Encouraged by new tech-friendly policies, Kenya has pulled in investments from firms like Britain’s Vodafone, France Telecom and India’s Essar Telecoms. Mobile commerce is growing.

Now Satchu has moved to Nairobi and follows the global markets through 3G technology.

“I have a supreme conviction that the African convergence with the rest of the world has begun, therefore I needed to place myself not on the beach, but in the thick of things.”

Satchu has a well-honed urge to consume. He likes to wear pricey Canali suits and Hermes ties, and drives a Nissan Patrol, a behemoth four-wheel-drive.

“I prefer to drive a Maserati or a fast car, but it is just not practicable on our roads,” he said, pointing to one of Kenya’s persistent shortcomings.

Eventually, improved infrastructure might allow him to drive that Maserati. For now, analysts fret about whether Kenya’s exporting capacity can keep pace with its imports.

“In most frontier markets… we haven’t seen sufficient evidence of this,” Khan said.

“Exports go up, but not nearly by enough, and imports – especially of consumer goods – go up even more.”

Such imports – combined with rising prices for domestic goods such as food – speed up inflation. That’s a worry for people like Vimal Shah, a third-generation Indian-Kenyan whose grandfather first came to Mombasa to work on the Kenya-Uganda railway. He now runs Bidco Industries, which was started by his family 25 years ago, and sells 30 brands of soap and edible oils.

Bidco is based in Thika, a manufacturing town half an hour’s drive from Nairobi, which made a name for itself in the 1970s as “The Birmingham of Kenya” because of its thriving textile factories, bakeries and motor vehicle plants.

In the early 2000s, though, it grew to symbolise Kenya’s decline. Plants closed, unemployment and poverty grew. Today, it feels like a typical rural Kenyan town – open-air markets brimming with fresh cabbages and potatoes, streets crowded with the small minibuses known as matatus.

Shah’s firm Bidco survived the hard times. It exports 20 percent of its output to other African countries, with a value of $40m a year, he says.

A fast-spoken father of one, Shah believes Kenya should be well positioned to export to markets in east and southern Africa, thanks to regional economic groupings.

The World Bank’s Fengler agrees Kenya could turn Mombasa into a trans-shipment hub to serve the east African region, which has fast-growing landlocked nations like Uganda, Rwanda and South Sudan.

“It is a serious opportunity,” says Shah in the company’s boardroom, furnished with comfortable, leather-padded seats and sound-proofed to muffle the noise of machinery.

“All we need to do is work on our costs of doing business.”

Energy, transport and labour costs are hurting manufacturing and exports, Shah says.

“Our cost of power is more than 20 US cents per kilowatt hour today. If we compare with Egypt, we are eight times higher.”

For him, the most important thing for Kenya is to turn its raw materials into things it can sell for more money.

“Why export cotton when you can export shirts? All that tea and coffee we produce, we should package it and send it straight to Starbucks.”

Or perhaps a home-grown cafe such as Java House. The outlet in Ngong Road is not far from Nairobi’s biggest slum, Kibera, a vast shack settlement that lacks even basic services. Many Kibera residents – there are hundreds of thousands of them – are angry that while prices of food have risen, wages have not. Many say their families now have to forgo meals.

Nothing

A year ago, 300 shillings (R28) bought breakfast, lunch and supper, “but now that is nothing”, said Jane Mwalugha, a married mother of five children aged between three and 15, in her one-roomed house.

“We have had to cut out lunch this year, so we just take supper. Bread is now a luxury, so we have cut it out.”

A few Kibera residents make their way to supermarkets in a nearby mall to buy tiny portions of food. But they are well out of reach for most.

“The government should construct supermarkets for the rich and let us have our own because they have decided in life that there are two tribes, the poor and the rich. They should let us have poor people’s shops,” Mwalugha said.

Ashley says that cellphones and the internet mean Africa’s young people understand the opportunities that people in richer countries enjoy.

That will increase the pressure to get the economy right.

“As policymakers and business leaders, we need to make sure that not only are we creating wealth at the top,” he said.

“We need to be creating lots of jobs down there for that group of young people coming now to the workforce.” —Reuters

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Social media becomes Kenya’s new watchdog

Posted by Administrator on January 27, 2012

Kenya has a police force whose officials are renowned for their large bellies and a predisposition towards getting a buck or two under the table in return for a “get out of jail free” card.

Though steps have been taken to reform the police force, corruption remains high (a website called “I Paid a Bribe” has just been founded because of this) and there just is not enough effective policing to curb many of the problems that Kenyan citizens faces every day.

This inefficiency gap is nevertheless starting to get filled: by social media.

Recently, hundreds of Kenyans have used the hash-tag #twitterbigstick to voice their frustrations over a range of issue from bad driving and perceived injustices to poor services. When dealing with traffic related “offences” Twitter has been given a watchdog role; “tweeps” (Twitter users) name and shame those who choose to act outside of traffic regulations, recording number plates and taking photographs of the offenders.

Primarily driven by Sunny Bindra (@sunnysunwords), a renowned management consultant, writer and educator, the hash-tag has managed to elicit responses from a variety of big companies including Kenya Power and Kenya Railways.

Mr Bindra has managed to translate the messages from his book on customer care into action as organisations are forced to become efficient. The sheer volume of “tweeps” who get involved means that the companies have no choice but to respond to complaints and comments by users.

 

Bandwagon

Kenya has a highly active civil society who are also very active on social media sites: just this week anew report placed Kenyans as the second top users of Twitter in Africa. The variety of users is astounding; corporations, politicians, musicians and everyone else has jumped onto the bandwagon.

Source: AFRICA REVIEW

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Once upon a time, the leafy Muthaiga was a dairy farm

Posted by Administrator on January 26, 2012

Muthaiga Country Club

Muthaiga Country Club

Who would today imagine the leafy Muthaiga Estate of Nairobi as the first farm to supply Nairobi with milk?

I have been checking the story of some of these early entrepreneurs—and what drove them before I stumbled on some Muthaiga records.

The story of Muthaiga appears on the records in 1901 when John Ainsworth (the first sub-commissioner in charge) followed the railway to establish a new town at Mile 327,- the first name adopted by railway engineers for Nairobi.

Ainsworth, who was not liked by the bully railway engineers, started wooing settlers to come to Nairobi to give him some back-up. One of the earliest settlers who was lured by Ainsworth was Sandbach Baker.

He not only fenced some 5,000 acres of land including Muthaiga in 1901, but also started a small dairy industry there. His only other challenger was architect J.K. Watson of Donholm Farm, which specialised in butter.

In 1903, Baker’s wife Marie Vera, unable to make sense of the big farm leased 500 acres of the Muthiga land to other settlers.

The first, according to records, was James Archibald Morison, a retired Captain of Grenadier Guards, an infantry regiment of the British Army.

This is the man who would later buy the entire modern-day Muthaiga from the Bakers for 20 pounds an acre.

Morison was a real estate pioneer. He decided to subdivide Muthaiga into small plots, a task that was carried by a firm of architects, Henderson and Ward.

The title survey of the land was carried out by Mr J.C. Coverdale who discovered that Muthaiga was 754 acres and not 717 as the Bakers had thought.

After Mr Coverdale finalised the title survey of Muthaiga, the farm started a simple transformation from a dairy to a residential estate, thanks to the small plots which could no longer sustain dairy farming.

In 1907, Muthaiga grew to become a township with most of the farms being turned into residential plots.

However, it was not until 1928 that the area was absorbed into Nairobi Municipality.

Actually, and for many years, the main street in Muthaiga, Karura Avenue, was known as Morrison Avenue after the original settler.

Morrison was also a British Conservative Party politician and had in 1910 inherited Basildon Park where he build new cottages and pumping stations to supply it with water.

That is the experiment he brought to Nairobi and why he turned this estate into an affluent suburb.

Social ties

But there was something else about Morrison. After he retreated to Nairobi, he found that the government was hated and its officials never socialised with the farmers.

That is why he spared part of his land to build Muthaiga Country Club. But just as the Club was getting re-opened the first World War broke in August 1914 with British East Africa now fighting German East Africa.

A plan for Muthaiga as Henderson and Ward construed it hangs up to this day at the Men’s Bar at Muthaiga Country Club. It was at this club, then baptised Moulin Rouge of Africa that settlers made their happy valley escapades.

The plan shows the roads and plots as originally designed.

It was Mr Ward of Henderson and Ward firm who christened the area Muthaiga after a Kikuyu herb that stood near his plot.

One of the notable colonial writers, Elspeth Huxley, remembers in her works how Muthaiga became the first dairy farm in colonial Kenya.

It was at Muthaiga that the country’s first butter industry, the one that triggered the mind of Lord Delamere, to start a similar project in the Rift Valley was started.

That is how the Kenya Co-operative Creameries (KCC) , the predecessor to New KCC was born.

jkamau@ke.nationmedia.com

Source: http://www.businessdailyafrica.com/Once+upon+a+time+the+leafy+Muthaiga+was+a+dairy+farm+/-/539444/1314530/-/153xi9kz/-/index.html

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JKIA targets US airlines with upgrade of terminals

Posted by Administrator on January 26, 2012

Transport minister Amos Kimunya on Thursday said he had held talks with a delegation from the US Department of Transport to resolve outstanding issues and ensure JKIA is accorded Category 1 status. Photo/CHRIS OJOW

Transport minister Amos Kimunya on Thursday said he had held talks with a delegation from the US Department of Transport to resolve outstanding issues and ensure JKIA is accorded Category 1 status. Photo/CHRIS OJOW

The Jomo Kenyatta International Airport in Nairobi will be upgraded to handle direct flights to the US by August.

Transport minister Amos Kimunya on Thursday said he had held talks with a delegation from the US Department of Transport to resolve outstanding issues and ensure JKIA is accorded Category 1 status.

“We hope to get the status by August. There is a schedule of things that have to be done that were agreed on,” said Mr Kimunya at the opening of a new British Airways lounge at JKIA.

Elevated status
The quest for the elevated status was behind the controversial demolition of buildings obstructing aircraft flight paths that has been going on since late last year. Home owners in the Syokimau area were the most affected by the demolitions.

“Part of ensuring security is clearing the area around the airport… We have to ensure the airport is secure,” he said.

Category 1 status is a prerequisite for any airport to handle direct flights to and from the US. Security was one of the hurdles cited for Kenya not attaining the status that would see it attract airlines from the US.

Last November, the Internal Security Ministry demolished homes and other properties in Syokimau, Kyang’ombe and Mitumba to clear the flight path for planes.

Qualified staff

The re-categorisation and restructuring of the Kenya Civil Aviation Authority (KCAA) to attract and retain qualified staff, especially inspectors, has also been speeded up to boost the airport’s status.

KCAA has been losing workers due to lack of competitive compensation in an industry that is facing a major shortage of qualified personnel.

The launch of direct flights by US-based Delta Airways aborted in 2009 after the US raised concerns over the safety of Kenya’s aviation installations and vulnerability to terrorist attacks.

The lack of the Category 1 status has seen Kenya fail to take advantage of the June 2008 Open Skies agreement that was signed in Washington by officials from both governments.

Source: http://www.businessdailyafrica.com/JKIA+targets+US+airlines+with+upgrade+of+terminals+/-/539546/1314760/-/hwum6dz/-/index.html

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Nagging: Meet the Marriage Killer

Posted by Administrator on January 26, 2012

Ken Mac Dougall bit into the sandwich his wife had packed him for lunch and noticed something odd—a Post-it note tucked between the ham and the cheese. He pulled it out of his mouth, smoothed the crinkles and read what his wife had written: “Be in aisle 10 of Home Depot tonight at 6 p.m.”

Mr. Mac Dougall was renovating the couple’s Oak Ridge, N.J., kitchen, and his wife had been urging him to pick out the floor tiles. He felt he had plenty of time to do this task. She felt unheard.

“I thought the note was an ingenious and hysterical way to get his attention,” says his wife, Janet Pfeiffer (whose occupation, interestingly enough, is a motivational speaker), recalling the incident which occurred several years ago. Her husband, a technician at a company that modifies vehicles for handicapped drivers, didn’t really see it that way. “I don’t need a reminder in the middle of my sandwich,” he says.

Nagging—the interaction in which one person repeatedly makes a request, the other person repeatedly ignores it and both become increasingly annoyed—is an issue every couple will grapple with at some point. While the word itself can provoke chuckles and eye-rolling, the dynamic can potentially be as dangerous to a marriage as adultery or bad finances. Experts say it is exactly the type of toxic communication that can eventually sink a relationship.

Why do we nag? “We have a perception that we won’t get what we want from the other person, so we feel we need to keep asking in order to get it,” says Scott Wetzler, a psychologist and vice chairman of the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Montefiore Medical Center in New York. It is a vicious circle: The naggee tires of the badgering and starts to withhold, which makes the nagger nag more.

Personality contributes to the dynamic, Dr. Wetzler says. An extremely organized, obsessive or anxious person may not be able to refrain from giving reminders, especially if the partner is laid back and often does things at the last minute. Other people are naturally resistant—some might say lazy—and could bring out the nagger in anyone.

It is possible for husbands to nag, and wives to resent them for nagging. But women are more likely to nag, experts say, largely because they are conditioned to feel more responsible for managing home and family life. And they tend to be more sensitive to early signs of problems in a relationship. When women ask for something and don’t get a response, they are quicker to realize something is wrong. The problem is that by asking repeatedly, they make things worse.

Men are to blame, too, because they don’t always give a clear answer. Sure, a husband might tune his wife out because he is annoyed; nagging can make him feel like a little boy being scolded by his mother. But many times he doesn’t respond because he doesn’t know the answer yet, or he knows the answer will disappoint her.

Nagging can become a prime contributor to divorce when couples start fighting about the nagging rather than talking about the issue at the root of the nagging, says Howard Markman, professor of psychology at the University of Denver and co-director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies. For 30 years, Dr. Markman has researched conflict and communication in relationships and offered relationship counseling and marriage seminars. He says that while all couples deal with nagging at some point, those who learn to reduce this type of negative communication will substantially increase their odds of staying together and keeping love alive. Couples who don’t learn often fall out of love and split up.

Research that Dr. Markman published in 2010 in the Journal of Family Psychology indicates that couples who became unhappy five years into their marriage had a roughly 20% increase in negative communication patterns consistent with nagging, and a 12% decrease in positive communication. “Nagging is an enemy of love, if allowed to persist,” Dr. Markman says.

The good news: Couples can learn to stop nagging. Early in their marriage, Ms. Pfeiffer, now 62, repeatedly reminded her husband about household tasks and became more demanding when he ignored her. “If I was asking him to take care of something that mattered to me and he was blowing me off, that made me feel like I didn’t matter,” she says.

Mr. Mac Dougall, 58, says the nagging made his muscles tense, he would become silent and his eyes would glaze over in a “thousand-yard stare.” “Her requests conveyed some sort of urgency that I didn’t think was needed,” he says. “If I said I was going to get to it, I would definitely get to it.”

Ms. Pfeiffer decided to soften her approach. She asked herself, “How can I speak in a way that is not threatening or offensive to him?” She began writing requests on Post-it notes, adding little smiley faces or hearts. Mr. Mac Dougall says he was initially peeved about the sandwich note but did show up at Home Depot that evening smiling.

Ms. Pfeiffer sometimes writes notes to him from the appliances that need to be fixed. “I really need your help,” a recent plea began. “I am really backed up and in a lot of discomfort.” It was signed “your faithful bathtub drain.” “As long as I am not putting pressure on him, he seems to respond better,” Ms. Pfeiffer says. Mr. Mac Dougall agrees. “The notes distract me from the face-to-face interaction,” he says. “There’s no annoying tone of voice or body posture. It’s all out of the equation.”

The first step in curbing the nagging cycle, experts say, is to admit that you are stuck in a bad pattern. You are fighting about fighting. You need to work to understand what makes the other person tick. Rather than lazy and unloving, is your husband overworked and tired? Is your wife really suggesting she doesn’t trust you? Or is she just trying to keep track of too many chores?

Noreen Egurbide, 44, of Westlake Village, Calif., says she used to give her husband frequent reminders to take out the garbage, get the car serviced or pick up the kids from school. “I thought I was helping him,” she says. Jose Egurbide, 47, often waited a while before doing what she asked. The couple would argue. Sometimes Ms. Egurbide would just do it herself.

A few years ago, they got insight into their nagging problem after taking a problem-solving assessment test, the Kolbe Assessment. Ms. Egurbide, a business coach, learned she is a strategic planner who gathers facts and organizes in advance. Her husband, an attorney, learned that he is resistant to being boxed into a plan. Now, Ms. Egurbide says, “I don’t take it personally when he doesn’t respond.” “There is a sense of recognition about what’s happening,” Mr. Egurbide says. “It’s easier to accommodate each other.”

Death by a Thousand Reminders

Is nagging a problem in your relationship? Here are some tips for both partners to help curb it.

Calm down—both of you. Recognize the pattern you are in and talk about how to address it as a team. You will both need to change your behavior, and ground rules can help.

Look at it from the other person’s perspective. ‘Honey, when you ignore me I feel that you don’t love me.’ ‘I feel that you don’t appreciate what I am already doing when you nag me.’

If you are the nagger, realize you are asking for something. Use an ‘I’ not a ‘you’ statement. Say ‘I would really like you to pay the Visa bill on time,’ instead of ‘You never pay the bill on time.’

Explain why your request is important to you. ‘I worry about our finances when you pay the bill late. We can’t afford to pay late fees.’

Manage your expectations. Make sure you are asking for something that is realistic and appropriate. Does the light bulb need to be changed immediately?

Set a timeframe. Ask when your partner can expect to finish the task. (‘Can you change the car oil this weekend?’) Let him tell you when it works best for him to do it.

If you are the naggee, give a clear response to your partner’s request. Tell her honestly if you can do what she asks and when. Then follow through. Do what you say you will do.

Consider alternative solutions. Maybe it’s worth it to hire a handyman, rather than harm your relationship with arguing.

Source: http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970203806504577180811554468728.html?mod=googlenews_wsj

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Kenyans second top tweeters in Africa

Posted by Administrator on January 26, 2012

A new report places Kenyans as the second top users of Twitter in Africa, surpassing countries in the Maghreb that had used the facility to stage political revolt.

Kenyans, ranked behind South Africans, tweet more than giants Nigerians, Egyptians and Moroccans despite having a lesser population.

The report titled How Africa Tweets says 60 per cent of those who tweet are aged between 20 and 29 years.

The study that was conducted by Portland’s Communications adds that 57 per cent of these tweets are from mobile devices and are driving the growth of social media in Africa.

However, it emerged that African leaders are still lagging behind in the use of social media.

“One of the more surprising findings of this research is that more public figures have not joined Africa’s burgeoning Twittersphere.

“With some notable exceptions, we found that business and political leaders were largely absent from the debates playing out on Twitter across the continent,” said Mark Flanagan, Portland’s Partner for Digital Communications

“As Twitter lifts off in Africa, governments, businesses and development agencies can really no longer afford to stay out of a new space where dialogue will increasingly be taking place, ” he added.

How Africa Tweets found that Twitter is helping to form new links within Africa.

Majority of those interviewed said that at least half of the Twitter accounts they follow are based within the continent.

Several Kenyan political leaders have set up social media accounts to woo voters in preparation for the 2012 General Election.

Prime Minister Raila Odinga and Vice President Kalonzo Musyoka have several Twitter and Facebook accounts.

Deputy PM and Minister for Finance Uhuru Kenyatta’s aides often release statements on social media while Gichugu MP Martha Karua is also very active.

Source- http://www.nation.co.ke/Tech/Kenyans+second+top+tweeters+in+Africa/-/1017288/1314162/-/jk3na7z/-/index.html

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Finance Minister Uhuru Kenyatta and Francis Muthaura have stepped aside from office

Posted by Administrator on January 26, 2012

Kenyan Deputy Prime Minister and Finance Minister Uhuru Kenyatta (2ndL), and Cabinet secretary Francis Muthaura (2ndR) attend a hearing, at the International Criminal Court in The Hague. PHOTO / FILE

Kenyan Deputy Prime Minister and Finance Minister Uhuru Kenyatta (2ndL), and Cabinet secretary Francis Muthaura (2ndR) attend a hearing, at the International Criminal Court in The Hague. PHOTO / FILE

Kenya’s Finance Minister Uhuru Kenyatta and Head of Public Service and Secretary to the Cabinet Francis Muthaura have stepped aside from office following a decision by ICC pre-trial Judges to confirm charges of crimes against humanity levelled against them.

Mr Kenyatta will however retain his post as Deputy Prime Minister in the coalition government.

President Kibaki accepted the decision of the two to step aside on Thursday and appointed Nairobi Metropolitan Minister Njeru Githae to act as Finance Minister.

Internal Security Permanent Secretary Francis Kimemia also takes over Mr Muthaura’s duties on an acting capacity.

Mutea Iringo will be Acting Permanent Secretary for Provincial Administration and Internal Security.

A statement from the President Press Service stated: “The President has accepted the decision by Uhuru Kenyatta to step aside as the Minister for Finance.  However, Hon. Kenyatta will retain the position of Deputy Prime Minister in accordance with the Constitution.”

“The President has also accepted the decision by Francis Muthaura to step aside as Permanent Secretary, Secretary to the Cabinet and Head of the Public Service.

“In this regard, Mr. Francis T. Kimemia, CBS Permanent Secretary, Provincial Administration and Internal Security will be Acting Permanent Secretary, Secretary to the Cabinet and Head of Public Service.”

The decision by Mr Kenyatta and Mr Muthaura to step aside follows mounting pressure from President Kibaki’s coalition partners ODM for the duo to relinquish their offices.

Source: http://www.nation.co.ke/News/politics/-/1064/1314328/-/8s5lal/-/index.html

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Video: Political will lacking for Kenya prosecutions

Posted by Administrator on January 26, 2012

In arguably the most significant general election since the country’s independence, Kenyans will test a new constitution adopted in 2010, after widespread violence and near civil war following the last ballot four years ago.

A bloody struggle for political power between tribes killed over a thousand people and a hundred thousand more were forced from their homes.
But not a single person implicated in the crimes has been convicted. And while the country’s justice minister agrees on the urgency of ending impunity before the vote, there appears to be no political will for prosecutions.
Al Jazeera’s Peter Greste reports from Eldoret, in western Kenya.

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