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ZIMBABWE: Virgins Forced into Marriage to ‘Appease’ Evil Spirits

Posted by Administrator on September 29, 2009

By Nyarai Kachere


MUTARE, Zimbabwe, Sep 29 (IPS) – Three years after being seized from their families and forced to marry and have sex with adult men in a Shona ritual to appease an avenging spirit, five teenagers are facing a dismal reality.

The girls from Honde Valley in Manicaland had to drop out of school, become under-age wives and mothers and live an impoverished life as vegetable vendors to contribute to their new families’ household income.

In 1999, Felicitas Nyakama, Nesta Maromo, Juliet Muranganwa, Precious Maboreke and Perseverance Ndarangwa, who were then between the ages of seven and 15, were handed over by their parents to the family of Gibson Kupemba as payment for the man’s murder. The girls’ relatives killed Kupemba to prepare muti, traditional medicine, which is sometimes made from body parts.

According to traditional belief, a murderer’s relatives need to appease a dead person’s spirit with virgin girls, sometimes as young as six years old. The virgin has to live with the murdered person’s family, no matter her age. When she reaches puberty, she is made the wife of one of the male members of her new family.

Kupemba’s grandson Gibson (junior) said his grandfather appeared to him in his sleep, demanding a virgin girl as compensation from each family involved in his murder. He insists the girls were not forced to offer themselves, but it was their personal choice to rescue their families from an evil spirit.

“They came here to confess on their own volition. Each girl must be accompanied by 22 heads of cattle,” said 28-year-old Kupemba junior, who married Precious Maboreke in 1999, when she was 15 years old. They have three children.

While five girls have already been pledged to the Kupembas, Kupemba junior says his family still demands twelve more virgins to avenge his grandfather’s death.

Kuripa ngozi, or virgin pledging, is a punishable offence under Zimbabwe’s Domestic Violence Act, the practice is rampant throughout the country but no perpetrator has ever been prosecuted.

The saga of the five girls began in 1995, the year Kupemba was murdered by four local grocery shop owners with the help of 13 other villagers. Kupemba’s mutilated, decomposing body was found discarded in a dry riverbed.

Some time later, locals say, Kupemba’s spirit started causing sudden ailments and deaths in the families involved, resulting in some of them confessing to killing him. The shop owners admitted to having chopped off his private parts, little fingers, tongue and a patch of hair for the preparation of traditional medicines to boost their businesses.

Despite the confessions, no arrests were made, and Kupemba’s relatives allege the shop owners bought the police’s silence.

To appease the dead man’s spirit, the families handed over the first five virgins to the Kupemba family from 1999 onwards, but the process was stalled in 2006 when children’s rights organisation Girl Child Network (GCN) compelled the police and the Department of Social Welfare to investigate the matter and return the girls to their families.

But shortly thereafter, investigations were put on ice. Headman Samanga of Honde Valley told IPS he pulled out of the Kupemba case, as all involved families had accused him of preventing them from resolving private, domestic affairs.

“In this area, people strongly believe kuripa ngozi can only be settled by offering a virgin girl. I was the lone voice against the practice, and it was soon drowned. The families believed I was hindering their efforts to settle their transgressions,” he explained.

Eventually, the police, which had rescued four of the girls from the Kupemba family and put them under the custody of GCN, ordered GCN to send the girls back to their families, who returned them to the Kupembas.

Only the mother of one of the girls, Anna Ndarangwa, says she tried to rescue her daughter from the ritual. “I had a heated argument with the Kupembas,” she said, but did not manage to take her daughter home.

Ndarangwa believes the girls were brainwashed into believing that the health and well-being of their families were dependent on their personal sacrifice. “It was like something was upon them. I don’t want my daughter to pay for a crime she did not commit. I will die fighting for her,” she declared.

Afraid to talk to the media, all five refused to be interviewed by IPS.

SOURCE: IPSNEWS-ZIMBABWE

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Cabinet ponders new laws that seek to radically change marriage

Posted by Administrator on September 28, 2009

A new law that seeks to revolutionise marriage by outlawing forced marriage and wife inheritance while embracing come-we-stay unions has been drafted.

The Marriage Bill also provides that one does not have to pay dowry to get married, but recognises dowry payment by those who are capable of doing so. It also states clearly that dowry will not be recovered in the event that the marriage collapses.

However, the Bill’s fate hangs in the balance after the Cabinet stopped its debate on grounds that further consultations needed to be made before it is tabled in Parliament.

Last week’s Cabinet meeting chaired by President Kibaki stopped debate on the draft Marriage Bill, Matrimonial Property Bill and the Family Protection Bill to pave the way for “further consultations” with MPs and other stakeholders.

Broaden consensus

“The Cabinet decided to hold further consultations with MPs and other stakeholders in order to broaden consensus on the Bills before they are tabled in Parliament,” read a Cabinet brief dispatched to newsrooms after the session.

The decision has thrown into uncertainty the Bill that also proposes that any man or woman in a marriage would provide for the upkeep of the financially weaker spouse.

According to the draft copy of the Bill, a couple will be deemed to be legally married if they cohabit for two years or more.

It also allows the bridegroom and the bride to decide whether their marriage will remain monogamous or become polygamous at some stage, so long as they both consent in writing.

The Bill further grants a widow the right to marry a person of her choice — a clear attempt to eradicate the culture of forced wife inheritance practised among some Kenyan communities.

It also blocks the marriage of a person to his stepmother, a practice which still prevails in some parts of the country, and further blocks one from marrying an adopted son or daughter.

The Bill seeks to outlaw child marriages by setting the minimum age for marriage at 18 years.

A minister who spoke to the Nation dispelled fears by gender activists that the Cabinet had effectively shot down the three Bills.

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“What we did was to refer the Bills back to the drafters so that they are consolidated into one piece of legislation because they are all related,” said the minister, who asked not to be named because he is not allowed to reveal Cabinet secrets.

Family lawyer Judy Thongori, in an interview with the Nation, defended the three Bills, saying they were “well-intentioned”.

Ms Thongori argued that the Marriage Bill, in particular, would consolidate all the seven laws currently governing marriages into one.

“They are very good Bills, we do not need to consolidate them into one. Their enactment will address once and for all the inconsistencies in the various pieces of legislation relating to marriage. They do not in any way segregate against one gender,” she stated.

Fr Vincent Wambugu, the secretary of the Kenya Episcopal Conference, which is the assembly of Catholic bishops in the country, objected to the clause recognising the come-we-stay marriages.

“Marriages should not be taken that casually. They are a blessing from God and they are not influenced by issues of property and inheritance. You do not cohabit for two years and declare you are married.”

Renowned Islamic preacher and nominated MP Sheikh Mohammed Dor cautioned the Cabinet to tread cautiously on the three laws.

“We are happy they rejected them in their current form. We will vigorously resist laws which undermine Islamic statutes regarding marriage and the rights of women because these are clearly spelt out,” he said.

Under the Marriage Bill, marriages will be monogamous or “potentially” polygamous where the man could marry more wives without divorcing the first wife.

Couples planning to marry will give a notice of their intention to the registrar of marriages between three weeks to three months of the intended marriage.

Marriages contracted under either customary or Islamic law are deemed as polygamous or potentially polygamous. In all other cases, marriages are presumed to be monogamous meaning that those cohabiting have to agree to have monogamous unions.

The Bill also deems a marriage null and void if one of the parties is found to have been insane, drunk or under the influence of drugs at the time of consenting to the marriage.

The marriage will also be declared null and void if it was conducted in the absence of the bride or the bridegroom or where either party was not capable of consummating it and has remained in that state ever since.

The Bill recognises marriages under the Islamic and the Hindu faith while also allowing the registration of customary marriages as opposed to the current situation where no Act of Parliament provides for such marriages.

The Bill provides that where the parties are separated, either spouse shall maintain the other spouse. In the current laws, the husband has a duty to maintain a needy wife, but there is no provision for the wife to maintain a needy husband.

The Bill also allows a man to borrow money on the strength of his wife’s finances and vice versa, so long as the money is to be used to cater for the family’s needs.

The Bill lists the grounds for divorce as including proven cases of adultery, cruelty, neglect and separation or desertion for at least two years.

SOURCE: DAILY NATION

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Fitting Farewell for Gardson”Gad” Mainge Kamau in Dallas, TX

Posted by Administrator on September 28, 2009

Story by Tony Karanja

Jambonewspot

DALLAS, TX- Hundreds of family members, friends and colleagues gathered to bid farewell and remember the life of Gardson Mainge Kamau on Sunday afternoon at the Upendo Baptist Church. Gardson Kamau was found dead in his apartment in Plano, TX a weekend ago.

Alice Wanjiru delivers the opening scripture reading at the memorial service. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

Alice Wanjiru delivers the opening scripture reading at the memorial service. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

The service began shortly after 3 pm. The Master of Ceremony Mr. Daniel Ndogo kicked off the proceedings giving a rundown of the program. Shortly thereafter, the opening scripture was read by Alice Wanjiru, a friend to Gardson and a neighbor to the deceased. The Eulogy was read by Peter Mwaniki a friend to Gardson. Mwaniki recalled the good times they shared with the deceased as well as Gardson’s signature dishes that he used to lavish them with. He remembered Gardson’s hearty laugh and numerous jokes. Dorothy Manyara, a cousin to the deceased recounted to the mourners the moments leading up to the finding of Gardson’s body. Although this account had been recounted before to mourners who had visited the family earlier on, it continued to strike a chord as it provided a reminder of how important it is to always check up on each other especially when one is living alone. Silence gripped the mourners as they took in every word as she provided this chilling timeline. This story reminded this writer of the similarly eerie circumstances a couple of months ago which led to the finding of a Kenyan lady, Gloria Kathurima in Manchester, UK. Gloria was also found dead in her apartment and Greater Manchester Police had to issue a plea to the public to help them locate her family. Her family has since been contacted.

Dorothy Manyara, a cousin to the deceased recounts the events leading to the tragic saturday evening, when Gardson body was found inside his aprtment in Plano. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

Dorothy Manyara, a cousin to the deceased recounts the events leading to the tragic saturday evening, when Gardson body was found inside his aprtment in Plano. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

There was an emotional moment when nieces and nephews to Gardson rose to speak and pay tribute to their uncle in a special presentation. After introductions by Miriam Manyara, they gave way to young Sheillane Murigi. A smiling Sheilanne remembered how Uncle Kamau used to take charge when they were in his presence and how “cool” of an uncle he was. After going through the happy moments with the deceased, Sheilanne then tearfully paid tribute to Uncle Kamau. “We miss you Uncle Kamau”, she said tears rolling down her eyes prompting audible gasps as some mourners were unable to hold back their emotions. Watching Sheilanne’s tribute gave a clear indication of the bond they had and it was all too clear of the gap he had left in the kids’ lives.

Sheilanne Murigi pays tribute to "Uncle Kamau" as Miriam Manyara and other nieces and nephews look on. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

Sheilanne Murigi pays tribute to "Uncle Kamau" as Miriam Manyara and other nieces and nephews look on. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

Other speakers who spoke about his life included Dr. Joseph H. Parker (1st Presbyterian Church of Plano) and Esther Manyara who is the deceased’s auntie. Mrs Manyara had travelled from California to see off her nephew. Also speaking at the event was Alex Ndirangu who was also a member of the committee and a representative of Trinity Ushindi Ministry. Mr. Ndirangu pointed out that it was important for friends to check up on each other and make sure they follow up even when they do not respond to our phonecalls. He said it was important not to assume that they are just ignoring our calls as something may be amiss and unless we follow up, it may be too late. He reminded the mourners that, had Dorothy not make an extra effort to look for Gardson when he did not return her phone calls, he may not have been found as soon as he was and would probably have spent a  much longer time in the apartment. Pastor Jackson Kingori of Neema Gospel Church, in Richardson, spoke on behalf of the Church and the sermon was delivered by Pastor Muniu who is the Associate Pastor at Upendo Baptist Church in Garland, TX and the hosting church for the memorial service.

Family members for line up for prayers led by Pastor John Mugo. Photo by Tony Karanja-(Jambonewspot)

Family members for line up for prayers led by Pastor John Mugo. Photo by Tony Karanja-(Jambonewspot)

As the close of the ceremony approached, prayers were said for the family. Pastor John Mugo of St. Matthews Anglican Church, in Irving,  led the session as he prayed for God’s Grace over the family and also prayed for the family’s strength. A fundraiser followed shortly after Mr. Maina Kaigi gave a recap of what is needed to send Gardson home to his final resting place. Just before the fundraiser, one of the speakers, Alex Ndirangu provided a light moment when he “asked” anyone who owed Gardson some money to “pay up now”. “Our traditions are different, but anyone who owes Gardson some money can pay up now (at this fundraiser),” Alex quipped prompting a burst of laughter from the mourners. “…and anyone who is owed by Gardson can claim a repayment only if they showed documentary evidence of the existence of the debt,” he added to more laughter.

Pastor Kingori addresing mourners during the service. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

Pastor Jackson Kingori (Neema Gospel Church, Richardson, TX) addressing mourners during the service. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

 

Pastor John Mugo (St. Matthew Anglican Church-Irving TX) leads in praying for the deceased's family. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

Pastor John Mugo (St. Matthews Anglican Church-Irving TX) leads in praying for the deceased's family. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

 

Alex Ndirangu, committee member and representative of Trinity Ushindi Ministry-Dallas-TX speaks on the life on Gardson Kamau and the importance of always keeping touch with your friends and loved ones. Photo by Tony Karanja(Jambonewspot)

Alex Ndirangu, committee member and representative of Trinity Ushindi Ministry-Dallas-TX speaks on the life of Gardson Kamau and the importance of always keeping in touch with your friends and loved ones. Photo by Tony Karanja(Jambonewspot)

Mr. Charles Koinange, a cousin to the deceased gave a vote of thanks and thanked friends, the Pastors of the various churches that were involved in the funeral arrangements as well as prayers, and well wishers who have consoled the family since the past weekend. The viewing of the body followed shortly afterwards  and after the viewing, the body was taken back to Rahma Funeral Home for preparation for the final journey to Kenya.

Pall-bearers escort the coffin containing Gardson Kamau after the service. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

Pall-bearers escort the coffin containing Gardson Kamau after the service. Photo by Tony Karanja (Jambonewspot)

Mr. Kamau’s body left for Kenya on Monday September 28th, 2009 and his funeral is scheduled for Friday October 2nd 2009 at his home in Nakuru District. May God rest his Soul in Eternal Peace.

APPRECIATION NOTE FROM THE FAMILY

Thank you so much for your out pouring of love and kindness as we grieve our beloved Gardson Kamau. It is because of all your prayers and support  that Gardson will be laid to rest this Friday at his home in Nakuru, Kenya.
 
 
Celebrating a life well lived:
http://www.gardsonkamau.us/
 
Details of the Memorial Service: http://www.jambonewspot.com/Gardson_Kamau_Memorial.htm
 
What Happened:
http://jambonewspot.com/Kenyan_man_found_dead-at_home_in_Plano_TX.htm

TO VIEW MORE PICTURES OF THE MEMORIAL SERVICE, VISIT http://www.gardsonkamau.us

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SIDE NOTE

It has been a somber couple of months or so for Kenyans in the Diaspora and I take this opportunity to convey my heartfelt condolences and urge you to take heart. Kenyans in the diaspora have lost sisters, brothers, friends, parents,sons and daughters and it has been a difficult and trying period for many in the community. Those that we have lost include:

Gardson Mainge Kamau-Dallas, TX

Moses Muniu Gatere—Dallas, TX

Justice Mbaka- Dallas TX

George Onyango- Yucaipa, CA

Gloria Kathurima- Manchester, UK

Tabitha “Michelle” Wanjiru Njenga- London, UK

Perpetua “Wendy” Muthoni  Muchemi- London, UK

Timothy Muraguri Ndegwa- Atlanta, GA

Jack Apollo Awuor- California

And many others that I may have missed.

Many others in the Diaspora have lost their loved ones back home and just to mention a few:

Eva Wangechi Maina (Sister to Eric Maina-Dallas, TX)

Justus Muiruri Marugu (Grandfather to Charles Muiruri Maina-AjabuAfrica.com)

George Njuguna a.k.a Georgie (Brother to Anne Njuguna and Benson Njuguna(DJ Sisqo) of Dallas, TX

 

For all the above mentioned as well as those other countless ones that I have not mentioned, hope the words from this clip provide you with solace as you remember your loved ones. They all left this earth in different ways but God loved them equally. May God rest their souls in eternal peace

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Kenyan officials complicit in violence, and the delays in justice

Posted by Administrator on September 27, 2009

Geoffrey York

Nairobi — From Monday’s Globe and Mail Last updated on Sunday, Sep. 27, 2009 09:44PM EDT

When she had mustered enough strength to leave hospital, 57-year-old Esther Wairimu went to the police with the medical evidence of how she was brutally attacked and gang-raped in her home.

The police shrugged. They said there was nothing they could do. The rapists were their own colleagues: members of a paramilitary wing of the police.

Almost 20 months later, Ms. Wairimu is still waiting for justice. Thousands of other Kenyans are also waiting. Despite massive evidence and growing international pressure, Kenya has failed to convict even a single person for the horrific wave of killings and rapes that shook the nation after a disputed election in 2007.

At least 1,500 people were killed and more than 600,000 were forced to flee their homes in the postelection violence. The attacks have been graphically documented in detailed reports, commissions, inquiries and studies. Yet Kenya’s politicians are still dithering and arguing about what to do – largely because the evidence points to many of their own top leaders as key organizers and inciters of the violence.

This month, the Kenyan parliament is making yet another attempt to set up a special tribunal to prosecute the killers and rapists. Again, a bill has been introduced. Again, the bill is expected to fail.

The chief prosecutor at the International Criminal Court in The Hague has threatened to take over the prosecution if Kenya fails to act by Sept. 30. The court has a list of Kenyan perpetrators – including several cabinet ministers – and has already begun hiring Kenyan investigators and translators. But if the ICC intervenes, only a tiny handful of perpetrators would be prosecuted – perhaps only two or three – because the international court lacks the capacity to prosecute a larger number.

“In this country,” Ms. Wairimu says, “there are two kinds of people: the big and the small. It’s the small people who were raped, who lost their property and their children. It was all because of decisions by the big people. They should be arrested and put in jail.”

Like most victims, she has given up on Kenya’s politicians. Only the judges in The Hague are honest enough to prosecute the guilty ones, she says.

Picture Above: Esther Wairimu, a 57-year-old grandmother of five, was gang-raped by paramilitary forces at her home in Kibera, a Nairobi slum, during violence after Kenya’s disputed election in 2007.

Ms. Wairimu, a secondhand clothes vendor and grandmother of five, was in her home in the sprawling Nairobi slum of Kibera on the afternoon of Jan. 30 last year when a train arrived with troops of the General Service Unit, the much-feared paramilitary elite of Kenya’s police, often used for riot control.

Violence was raging across the country, and the GSU was under orders to quell it. Instead its members were among the worst perpetrators.

Three GSU men broke down her door and burst into her house, claiming they were searching for gang leaders. They looked under her bed. Then they ordered her to take off her clothes. “We want people like you because you have no diseases,” they told her. They covered her face with a sheet, threw her on the bed and repeatedly raped her.

After they left, the slum was still filled with fighting, and she didn’t dare to leave her house. The next day, a neighbour found her and cleaned her with salty water. When she finally reached a hospital on Feb. 9, she needed a week of treatment. “There was a lot of damage to my body because I was old,” she says.

When she left the hospital, she gathered the medical reports to take to the police as evidence. “They told us to report to the police so that we could have justice and compensation,” she recalls. “But nothing has happened since then. I have a heavy heart. I am afraid for the future of my grandchildren.”

She still suffers pelvic pain, dizziness and psychological damage from her ordeal. “It will never go away,” she says.

At one Nairobi hospital alone, about 230 rape victims were admitted for treatment during the wave of violence from Dec. 30, 2007 to Feb. 2, 2008. “About 90 of these cases were as a result of gang rape carried out by between two and 11 men,” said a report by the Kenya National Commission on Human Rights.

“These incidents of rape appear to have been targeted to punish the victims for their perceived political positions based on their ethnic identities,” the commission said. “Sexual violence was meted out against members of ‘enemy communities.’“ The commission published a list of 219 alleged perpetrators who should be investigated for possible prosecution for the postelection violence, including seven MPs, three assistant ministers, a deputy prime minister and seven cabinet ministers – many of the most powerful politicians in the country. So far, none have been charged with any crimes.

Kenya failed to prosecute those who attacked innocent people in the bloody aftermath of the 1992 and 1997 elections. Now it is on the verge of the same decision again.

“Because of this history, impunity has been entrenched and has even gained legitimacy in this country,” said Ndungu Wainaina, executive director of the Nairobi-based International Center for Policy and Conflict. There are fears that Kenya could face a worse outbreak of violence in its next election.

Kenya’s foreign donors, who pushed for the creation of a coalition government in 2008 after the disputed election, are losing patience with the constant delays. “We are waiting, we are disappointed,” U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton told reporters in Nairobi last month.

Her words were followed last week by a U.S. threat to impose travel bans on at least 15 senior Kenyan officials for failing to move ahead with long-discussed reforms, including the prosecution of those who led the postelection violence.

Yet the Kenyan government has rejected every attempt to set up a prosecuting tribunal. Instead it wants to send the cases to a truth and reconciliation commission – a toothless body that is overwhelmed with other historical cases to review from the past four decades.

This month, a group of MPs is trying again to revive the idea of a special tribunal to prosecute the killers and their organizers. They have introduced another bill in parliament and are campaigning vigorously for it. But they admit they are facing an uphill struggle. Powerful government members are refusing to support the bill.

“We’re facing very stiff opposition from the beneficiaries of impunity,” said Gitobu Imanyara, the MP who introduced the latest tribunal bill.

Patricia Nyaundi, executive director of Kenya’s Federation of Women Lawyers, is one of the civil-society activists who is lobbying for the tribunal bill. Five months ago, she was famous for leading a “sex boycott” of Kenya’s politicians, in which their wives were asked to refrain from sex as a way of putting pressure on the coalition government to stop infighting and proceed with promised reforms.

Now she is trying to mobilize Kenyans to support the tribunal bill. “This is the last chance for a tribunal,” she said. “If it fails, we will have the International Criminal Court to fall back on, but it won’t get as many of the perpetrators as we want.”

Without a strong lobbying campaign by the public, the politicians are unlikely to accept a tribunal, she said. “They can’t be trusted with this legislation.”

The victims of the gang rapes are convinced that the rapists will never be arrested by any Kenyan authorities. “For me, I only believe in The Hague,” says Pamela Akinyi, a 45-year-old woman in the Kibera slum who was raped by a group of GSU men when they entered the slum on Jan. 30, 2008.

She weeps quietly as she remembers the attack. Four of her children watched her being assaulted by the men. She later discovered that she was infected with the AIDS virus.

Picture Above: Pamela Akinyi, 45, a mother of five and resident of Nairobi’s Kibera slum, was gang-raped at her home in front of her children during the violence that followed Kenya’s disputed election in 2007.

“They hurt me so much that I was bleeding,” she says. “After they left, my children boiled water for me, and I slowly tried to clean myself until I could walk a little. When my husband heard that I was raped, he ran away and has never come back. He blamed me for it. He said I should have fought them off.”

Since then, the only help she received was from a local counselling group, supported by CARE, the international development agency, which established community reporting centres where the victims could get counselling and treatment.

“The politicians in Kenya are playing with us, they’ve exploited us, they don’t care about us,” Ms. Akinyi says. “None of them had their children raped or their property stolen. Nothing will be done to them in Kenya – our faith in the justice system is gone. They should all go to The Hague. They should all pay for what they did. We want to see justice done.”

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August remittances to Kenya highest this year

Posted by Administrator on September 25, 2009

NAIROBI (Reuters) – The amount of money sent home by Kenyans living abroad in August was $55.95 million, the highest for any month this year and up from $43.39 million in August 2008, the Central Bank of Kenya said on Friday.

Total remittances in the first eight months of 2009 stood at $398 million, down from $417 million in the same period of 2008, but up from $366 million in January-August 2007.

Remittances to east Africa’s biggest economy are a key source of foreign exchange. They totalled $611.2 million in 2008, up from $573.6 million in 2007.

The central bank says more than half of remittances have come from North America in each of the past five years. It also studies the inflows to assess the extent of the international economic downturn when formulating policy.

 SOURCE: REUTERS

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Obama disappointed in Kenya

Posted by Administrator on September 24, 2009

The public issuance of travel bans on Kenya’s ruling elite by the Obama Administration reflects the White House’s frustration with an African government of which it expects far more — and a half-Kenyan President who believes his father’s country can do much better.

Unlike some other African nations that have degenerated into catastrophic poverty and corruption, Kenya has long been the West’s mainstay in East Africa and is Washington’s top partner in the region. After the bloodshed that followed the disputed 2007 election which threatened to split Kenya along ethnic lines, the US brokered a power-sharing deal but since then has repeatedly warned that it wants faster reform.

Mr Obama believes that Kenya is one country in Africa that should be performing far better, especially after pro-democracy hopes soared following the ousting of Daniel arap Moi in 2002.

Mr Obama’s decision not to visit his father’s homeland on his first presidential trip to Africa earlier this year was meant to convey his deep displeasure with the Kenyan Government. On Wednesday, at the UN General Assembly, Kenyan officials were excluded from meetings with Mr Obama. Last month Hillary Clinton, the US Secretary of State, made it clear that Washington expected action.

US intelligence services are also increasingly concerned about the prospect of Kenya, without reform, becoming a base for Islamic extremists. Already al-Qaeda’s presence is fast expanding further north in the Horn of Africa.

SOURCE: TIMES ONLINE

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Family finance: Women and their secret accounts

Posted by Administrator on September 24, 2009

To have a secret account or not?

The moment was tense with a heavy sense of betrayal. Eddy* looked at his wife Terry* from across their bedroom then fished some document from the drawer.

It was her bank statement for Sh307,000. She suddenly froze and was lost for words. Eddy didn’t have to say anything, Terry recalls the moment, as the hurt and surprise were clearly written in his eyes.

The secret was out. It had started when he picked her up when she was suddenly taken ill at work. None of them had imagined that after her recovery, their marriage would also be in need of repair.

The damning document had been in the handbag she forgot in the car after she fell sick.

Not so uncommon

This phenomenon is rarely talked about among couples, but it is so widespread in marriages that analysts say if it came out there would be many divorces.

“It is common for spouses or partners to hold back from each other when it comes to finances,” says Mr Jeremiah Ireri, a pastor and marriage counselor at Zion Baptist Church, Nairobi.

“Of all the issues couples seek help or intervention for, the most common has to do with money.”

Men and women keep financial secrets in different ways, though, he notes, “men tend not to reveal how much they are making to their wives while women tend to want to put money aside without the husband’s knowledge just in case he abandons the family or does not provide for them or something goes wrong.”

This is more common among couples who have children together, but are not officially married and thus in the event of a separation, the man will be under no obligation to support them.

Pastor Ireri recalls a time when he had difficulty reconciling a couple after the wife found out that the husband had been unfaithful and had been spending a lot of money on the mistress for whom he paid for everything, including clothes, shoes, trinkets and rent.

Until then, she took care of her part of the household expenses and put most of what she had left into their joint account as they accumulated towards a down payment for a mortgage.

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She was bitter and hurt that while she did that, the bulk of her husband’s income went to his mistress.

“It took months to get her to go back to her matrimonial home and even now, the repair work to regain trust is going on through individual and joint counseling sessions,” says the Pastor.

In the first case, Terry worked as an office administrator, while Eddy ran a hardware business that was steadily growing. He had them move from their one-bedroom to a two-bedroom house two months before their first child was born.

All through, he took care of house rent, bills and shopping, while Terry did the groceries and paid the house-help. The couple had also opened a joint account and invested in stocks after a while.

When illness in the family or larger family came up on either side, or if either of their parents and younger siblings needed help, Eddy helped. The previous week Eddy had made a payment of Sh15,000 for her younger sister to start an accountancy course.

Men have always wondered why women keep secret accounts — whether it is an emergency fund or because of sheer mistrust.

Starting out

So what advice does Paster Ireri give couples who come to him with their unions at risk due to financial disagreements?

“All couples who want to formalise their union through marriage at our church have to go through pre-marital counseling on a number of issues, including financial matters.

Pointers couples starting out get include:

  • Don’t make love the only thing you consider when settling on a life partner. Look at compatibility including financial; consider what ideals you consider absolute and which differences you have that you could compromise on.
  • Be clear about what you can and are willing to do as far as finances are concerned.
  • Be open about what you have rather than doing things to impress. You will, for one, not be able to maintain the lie for long and you may be in trouble once the truth comes out. Don’t, for example, borrow or take out loans for a lavish wedding to impress people and then live financially unhappy ever after.
  • Make financial plans together, including plan B and even C. That is what you would do if one of you lost his/her income or if extended families need financial help. Thinking it out before it happens helps make it manageable when it does happen.
  • Seek help or advice from a neutral third party — not from a bitter aunt or mother. In fact, keep your financial issues away from family members and friends, their advice will be out of their own experiences and might not have your interests at heart.

For incidences where trust has been breached, financial or otherwise, the Pastor advises to:

  • Decide whether you still want to continue with the relationship or have no chance of reconciliation. Some incidents, he notes, have such a serious breach of trust that one party immediately decides to stop the relationship.
    If unsure, do not make any move before deciding what happens to the marriage. Do not, for instance, go and clean out your joint-account, move out and take everything with you including the children. It is, however, wise to take time alone away from the matrimonial home with a relative to think things through.
  • Express how you feel and why. The pastor says he never ceases to be surprised by men who defend their actions by comparing them to men of God like Abraham and Solomon who they say did the same thing.
  • Whatever decision you arrive at about the relationship, work on forgiving the other person. Hating someone, Pastor Ireri warns, is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.
  • Refocus, be it on rebuilding the relationship or starting your life alone, or with children.
    Do this through a neutral third party. Work on coming up with a plan that works for both of you that reassures the betrayed person that total honesty and trust can be regained if a reconciliation is the goal.
  • If there is a reunion, don’t overdo things like monitor each other.
  • Stay on track with frequent checks but do not make these grilling sessions. If you are staying in the relationship, give it a real chance and desist from raising issues or nagging unless urgent, until the monthly session.

Eddy and Terry

His advice for Eddy and Terry and everyone in a similar situation, regardless of who is holding back, is to agree that things must change and how to go about it.

“A situation where one partner is angry and uncommunicative makes for a great possibility for infidelity as a means to hurt back or seek acceptance and comfort,” he says.

The neutral third party comes in here, but decisions need to be made and action to reinforce them before the reaction to the what is perceived as betrayal becomes habit and then character.

Take it to the doctor

Ms Diana Gachukia’s take, a financial consultant with Zenith Financiers and Advisors, says the approach should be “direct, methodical and if at all possible, detached from the lovey-dovey feelings.”

“The thing with couples,” she says, “is that they believe that this warm, caring and giving person will have the same financial personality, and this is not always, in fact, hardly ever, the case.”

For example, she says, a man may want to spend time with you but his idea of quality time would be to cook for you at home and rent out a few movies every weekend, while the woman’s idea of a good time would be dinner at a fancy place and dancing afterwards.

“They are seemingly small differences but they have to be dealt with every weekend or become apparent about other issues like where to live or school the kids based on spending, a big clash is inevitable.”

“Take care of joint-financial issues like you are taking them to the doctor. What you are after at a doctor’s is a remedy, perhaps with a prescription, an injection or something practical to do or a check up to confirm that all is well,” she says.

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Do this by:

  • Putting everything on the table with documentary evidence like pay slips and bank statements.
  • Treating this like a contract — you put in something and expect something back for both parties. State your individual goals, such as going back to school and joint ones like owning a home, then together make a plan on how you will achieve them.
  • Making appointments with your financial advisor regularly, say every six months or when things that touch your finances change. Do not change your plans alone.
  • Having written records of your progress, such as statements on your returns and documents for assets you have bought under your name gives you a sense of guarantee of joint-ownership.
  • Accompanying your spouse or partner to their work-related functions and getting to know their colleagues is also a way to be open about finances. If they have been promoted, got a raise or bonus, you are likely to know about it.
  • Giving each other space. Based on your income(s), pool your resources and put family needs and obligations first and have individual accounts for your own use.

“Whatever you decide to do with your own funds, which the other person is well aware of from what is left over after you have joined finances, is not or should not be subject to scrutiny by the other person,” she says.

“Putting away money that the other person does not know you have, however, is different and things can crumble when it comes to light.”

A partnership between a couple, means giving all of yourself, including financially, she further explains.

“That means that if rent or school fees for the children goes up and there is nothing for you to keep for yourself in your account, so be it.”

Eddy, Terry and others

To Eddy and Terry and all couples, Ms Gachukia’s advice is to be truthful with yourself.

“A man may be uncomfortable or feel short-changed when he has to put all his earnings on the table and seek approval on how to spend it or a woman may believe a man’s role is to fully provide for the family and her income is hers to use.”

“Tell the other person how you feel when things start getting serious rather than playing along and then fight about money all the time.”

Ms Gachukia also insists on seeking professional financial advice rather than talking to friends and relatives.

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Give all, get more

“True partnership is when you put all of what you are and have on the table and walk away with more than you started with,” said US media mogul, Oprah Winfrey.

As you pool as a couple for more and better, don’t forget the other returns apart from shillings and cents — the trust, the faith, the dependence, the confidence of a life partner to whom you give, so you can both come out with more.

If your goal is get the most, the only way is to put in the most that you can.

*Names have been changed to avoid embarrassing the couple.

jkagendo@yahoo.com

SOURCE: DAILY NATION

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George Onyango killed in US by teens flown home

Posted by Administrator on September 24, 2009

The body of a Kenyan who died from injuries suffered in an attack by two teenagers under his care in the US has been brought home.

Distraught friends and a relative turned up at the Jomo Kenyatta International Airport to receive the casket bearing the remains of George Onyango, 43, who died from head injuries during the attack at a juvenile home in California.

Led by his brother, Mr Kennedy Omondi, the mourners expressed shock and disbelief at the sudden and tragic death of their kin on August 22.

“We are indeed very sad. We feel really shaken… it is something we were really not prepared for but it has happened. We have to move on,” said Mr Omondi, who was accompanied by Rev Dr Willie Kiilu and Mr Bosma Khakali from the US.

The body of the late Onyango was to be airlifted to Kisumu Thursday evening before being ferried to his rural home in Asembo, Rarieda District a day later on Saturday for burial.

Police reports indicate that Mr Onyango, a father of two, was an overnight counsellor at Yucaipa, a home for delinquent youths in California.

He was attacked by two youths under his care with an iron bar and a wooden rod after he denied them permission to leave the facility.

The two youths tied him up and left him paralysed and suffering brain damage.

He was later rushed to the Loma Linda University Medical Centre, where he succumbed to his injuries.

After the attack, the assailants, who now face murder charges, fled in Onyango’s car. Police officers chased them up to Fontana, where they crashed and were captured.

Mr Onyango won a US green card, leading to his move to America in 2006. But a few months after the family settled in Yucaipa, his wife, Beatrice, fell ill and died, leaving him a widower and a single father of two boys, now aged 11 and 13 years.

After the death of his wife, Mr Onyango turned his energies to caring for his sons and working part-time as a counsellor at night in a home for troubled youths. During the day, he took courses for the California State Bar examination.

“This has left the family devastated. Nobody expected this to happen so soon after he lost his wife. We are yet to come to terms with the terrible news,” Mr Omondi told the Daily Nation.

The two youths charged with the killing – Carlos Dubose, 17, of Oakland, and Davion Whitmore, 16, of Long Beach.

Rev Kiilu said investigations over the savage beatings had already started and that the two delinquents had already been charged with murder in the Superior Court of San Bernardino.

SOURCE: DAILY NATION

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The untold suffering of Kenya’s Children

Posted by Administrator on September 24, 2009

Jonathan Rugman reports on the child sex trade plaguing Kenya’s pristine white beaches, amid fears that up to 20,000 children are engaged in some form of under-age sex work – often with “muzungus”, white men.We have been on a harrowing journey – from nightclubs where European men pick up 12-year-old Kenyan girls; to an orphanage where children as young as six have found sanctuary after sexual abuse by foreign tourists.

Kenya’s beaches represent the best in tropical paradise, mutually beneficial for both the thousands of Europeans who head there and the locals who thrive from their tourism.

But Kenya’s coast has a seedier face – visiting white men who pay children, some as young as three years old, for sex. In a country where ten million people are going hungry, there are fears that this abuse is spiralling.

Foreign affairs correspondent Jonathan Rugman journeyed from around the villages of Mombasa, and then onto Mtwapa and Malindi.

Extracts from Jonathan Miller’s blog

Kenya’s beaches are the stuff holiday brochures are made of – mile after mile of glistening white sand, kissed by equatorial sun. Tourism is a major money spinner for one of the world’s poorest countries, but Kenya’s tropical paradise hides a dark secret.

We have been on a harrowing journey – from nightclubs where European men pick up 12-year-old Kenyan girls; to an orphanage where children as young as six have found sanctuary after sexual abuse by foreign tourists.

A journey into a world of cruelty and desperation, a world we could scarcely have imagined. And both talking and filming with children brutalised and traumatised by their experiences has not been easy.

WATCH VIDEO HERE: http://link.brightcove.com/services/player/bcpid1184614595?bctid=41847358001Our journey began in the nightclubs on the outskirts of Mombasa. Visit the Mtwapa suburb after midnight, and white male European tourists are busy ogling and fondling teenage girls.

The teenagers wear high heels, or pay a bribe at the club door to get in. The ultimate prize is a “muzungu ” or white man, who will pay for sex five times what a Kenyan labourer can earn in a day.

But the price these girls are paying is nothing less than a stolen childhood.

Anastasia says she’s 13 now, and has been prostituting herself since she slept with a British tourist at the age of ten, a crime which in Britain would be classed as rape.

Her parents couldn’t even afford school shoes, so she set out for a better life amid the bright lights of Mombasa. That life is sharing a flat with a fellow prostitute, Leyla, who is 14. And both girls say the number of children involved is growing.

“When I started at the age of 12, I could go into a nightclub, and maybe I can get 10 or 20 girls,” Leyla told me.
“At least you could count and say, ‘that one and that one, they are prostitutes’. But now there are many, all over the place. Sometimes I get stressed. I ask myself, or God, what I have done wrong? I am still a child and I am doing this.”

At that point in our interview, Leyla dropped her head in shame. Anastasia was crying.

Three years ago, a study by the UN children’s agency UNICEF warned that there were thousands of girls like Leyla.

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HIV breakthrough as scientists discover new vaccine to prevent infection

Posted by Administrator on September 24, 2009

A medical trial in Thailand has raised hopes of a major breakthrough in the fight against Aids after scientists said an experimental vaccine had reduced the risk of HIV infection by a third.

The world’s largest HIV/Aids vaccine trial of more than 16,000 volunteers was the first in which infection has been prevented, according to the US army, which sponsored the trial with the National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases.

A combination of two vaccines was tested on HIV-negative Thai men and women aged 18 to 30 at average risk of becoming infected. All the volunteers were given counselling and condoms to help them avoid HIV. Then half were randomly picked to receive the vaccine, while the other half got dummy shots. Until the trial ended, nobody knew who had been given the genuine vaccine and who had not.

A relatively small number of people became infected with HIV – 51 of the 8,197 people given the vaccine, and 74 of the 8,198 who received dummy shots – but the difference was statistically significant, which means scientists believe it could not have happened by chance. It worked out at a 31% lower risk of infection for the vaccine group.

Colonel Jerome Kim, who helped to lead the $105m (£64m) study for the US army, said it was “the first evidence that we could have a safe and effective preventive vaccine”.

Recent failures had led many scientists to believe that such a vaccine might not be achievable. In 2007, the drug company Merck abandoned what had looked at the time like the most promising avenue of research after disappointing trial results. Today the National Institute’s director, Dr Anthony Fauci, warned it was “not the end of the road”, but said he was surprised and very pleased by the outcome.

“It gives me cautious optimism about the possibility of improving this result,” he said. “This is something that we can do.”

Every day, 7,000 people worldwide are newly infected with HIV; 2 million died of Aids in 2007, the UN agency Unaids estimates.

The Aids Vaccine Advocacy Coalition, an international group that has worked towards developing a vaccine, welcomed the results of the trial – the third major study since 1983, when HIV was identified as the cause of Aids – as “a historic milestone”.

The executive director, Mitchell Warren, said: “There is little doubt that this finding will energise and redirect the Aids vaccine field.”

Frances Gotch, professor of immunology at Imperial College London, said the results appeared to be statistically significant and may have been the effect of the two different vaccines working in tandem to more powerful effect.

“The fact that they have seen a response with people with such a low incidence of infection is impressive,” Gotch, who is also the principal investigator for the International Aids Vaccine Initiative, told the Guardian.

“Of course it’s not 100% of people [protected] but 31% could make an enormous difference in the world. I think this is something we can work with.”

Thailand’s ministry of public health conducted the study, which used strains of HIV common in Thailand.

Scientists stressed it was not known whether such a vaccine would work against other strains elsewhere in the world. The study was done in Thailand because US army scientists carried out pivotal research in that country when the Aids epidemic emerged there, isolating virus strains and providing genetic information on them to vaccine makers.

The study tested a two-vaccine combination in a “prime-boost” approach, where the first one primes the immune system to attack the HIV virus, and the second one strengthens the response.

Alvac uses canarypox, a bird virus, altered so it can’t cause human disease, to ferry synthetic versions of three HIV genes into the body. AidsVax contains a genetically engineered version of a protein on HIV’s surface.

It is unclear whether vaccine makers will seek to license the two-vaccine combination in Thailand. Before the trial began, the US Food and Drug Administration said other studies would be needed before the vaccine could be considered for US licensing. The full results of the trial will be presented at an international Aids vaccine conference in Paris in October.

The executive director of the Global HIV Vaccine Enterprise, an alliance of research bodies and funders like the Gates Foundation, said the results showed a vaccine was an achievable goal. “This is a historic day in the 26-year quest to develop an Aids vaccine,” said Dr Alan Bernstein. “This trial is the first demonstration in humans that, with more research, it will be possible to develop a vaccine that is fully protective against HIV.”

Deborah Jack, chief executive of the National Aids Trust in the UK, said a vaccine, by far the most effective way of tackling serious infectious diseases, was desperately needed. More work was needed, but the promising findings “justify the continuing investments and efforts of the international community, including the UK government, to develop a vaccine.”

The Terrence Higgins Trust said it was treating the results with “cautious optimism”.

“This is the first step on a very long road,” said the policy manager, Vicky Sheard.

“There’s a lot of research needed into how a vaccine can be rolled out, how costly it’s going to be, whether it’s going to be effective against different strains.”

SOURCE: www.guardian.co.uk

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