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Rhoda Maina’s Letter To Oprah As She Sought Help For Others

Posted by Administrator on December 2, 2009

By Tony Karanja

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“I was fortunate to have access to a car and a wheelchair but what about the millions of people afflicted with autoimmune diseases- arthritis, rheumatoid arthrits, lupus, scleroderma? Surely they couldn’t be confined just to their homes?”—Rhoda Maina wrote in her letter to Oprah

As Rhoda went through the devastating effects of Lupus, she did not just sit around worrying about herself. Rhoda’s thoughts were also in Kenya thinking about those who also needed help. She was determined to do something about it even as she ailed.

According to her childhood and longtime friend, Tanya Ranguma, Rhoda was writing a letter to Oprah seeking help for an initiative she had in mind. Even in her trials, Rhoda thought about those people in Kenya who suffered from autoimmune diseases and had nowhere or no one to turn toto turn to.

Rhoda sought to start the Rhoda Maina Foundation which would be a vehicle for raising awareness to the plight of patients with conditions like hers in Kenya.

Rhoda was aware of how fortunate she was to have access to basic needs for her in her fight against this disease. She had access to a car and a wheelchair and she could not help but think of the patients in Kenya who would not be able to afford the same. She vowed to do something about it. She sought to write to Oprah Winfrey to seek assistance for her project.

Sadly, she never got to live long enough to see it get to Oprah. This powerful and inspiring letter posted below is a reflection of who Rhoda was. Her big heart never failed her despite her failing health. Maybe somehow this letter can still get to Oprah…someway..somehow and eventally we shall get to see the launch of the Rhoda Maina Foundation. Her dream lives on and may it come to fruitation.

RHODA MAINA’S LETTER TO OPRAH

 

Lately I find myself dwelling on this notion of living my best life more than ever. My name is Rhoda, I am young by all accounts you see I’m 26 years old and iv just gone through the toughest, hardest, most gruesome month of my life. I’d say in the last 2 years I have had my ups and downs but August of 2009 was a new down for me. I’ve been living and at times even thriving, with a diagnosis of Mixed Connective Tissue Disease for the last 8 years. When it finally hit me about 4 years ago that I had a serious chronic illness, I decided that it was not going to stop me from doing any of the things that I wanted to do that I still could do. I changed my major is school from business to psychology because I knew that in my new capacity- living well with a chronic illness, the emotional and mental tools available to me through psychology would be priceless. I also felt deep in an inner space I can’t quite articulate that I need to encourage other people. I find myself being a pillar of strength and hope to my friends, loved ones and lately even to strangers. I was always hesitant to be this person. I just wanted to blend in and assimilate and I was ashamed and embarrassed because I felt that my body was a poor representation of who I really was. How could one tell by looking at my frail weak body that I was smart, funny, strong and beautiful? I felt like a failure for needing help to get off of the chair. It killed me to have my younger sister help me get dressed up. Who I truly was and the person that people see when they look at me just did not add me in my mind and when I looked in the mirror. What changed this for me was when I went back home for my grandfathers funeral in 2003. I was born and raised in Nairobi Kenya. The love , kindness and support I received from my family and friends not only touched me but it also shocked me. These people who I feared might reject me not only accepted me and treated me like the same person I knew I was, but they were also impressed and awed by me for some reason. I was the one holding myself back. I was the one ashamed of myself when other people were proud of me! A shift transpired in my soul and mind…

While I was back home for the first time as a person with a disability I was taken aback by the lack of sensitivity and basic human decency extended to this group of persons. People would stop dead in their tracks to stare at me holding on to my brother to negotiate a step. The number of buildings that were handicap accessible were less than the number of fingers in one hand. I was fortunate to have the access of a car and wheelchair but what about the millions of people afflicted with autoimmune diseases- arthritis, rheumatoid arthritis, lupus, scleroderma? Surely they couldn’t be confined just to their homes? I left Kenya feeling happy, renewed, with a peace and joy deep within my being that I cannot begin to explain to you. On the flip side, I also felt a deep sense of responsibility to highlight the plight of other people suffering from these horrible diseases and have nowhere to turn to. Even at my most desperate times as a non insured person with a chronic pre-existing condition, I knew that I could go to the ER and get basic help. But these people in my home, the country I was born in and love so much have nothing. No wheelchairs, no crutches, no information, no medicine. It broke my heart but I didn’t feel helpless.

I decided that I would start the Rhoda W Maina foundation whose aim was to create awareness and support people living with autoimmune conditions in Kenya.

I sit here, weaker than I have ever been after the worst month of my life. I spent 3 weeks out of the month of August in hospital with the prospects of heart surgery & a colostomy looming over my head. Both procedures were ruled out after my team of doctors decided that I was a poor candidate to operate on. My body would not be able to heal itself afterwards. One of the options I was offered was hospice care to help manage my pain and keep me comfortable. I accepted it even though I know that I am not dying, but I need to be comfortable as I figure out what to do next. I feel the guiding hand of a higher being over my life and I know…I just know that this which seems like is the thing that has come to finish me, will be the very thing that will build me up and elevate me to my best life.

If I was chosen to receive the 100,000 $ (plus 10,000), I would not only be able to seek the medical help I so desperately need, but I would also get the Rhoda W Maina foundation up and running and help others like myself. I imagine how happy it would make an old disfigured woman with arthritis in a village in Kenya to attend a church service on Sunday because she finally has a wheelchair. Or the dignity it would give a bed ridden person to have a bedside commode to relieve themselves. I know, because I am that person.

Many a time we cannot answer questions about the pain we go through in life, but perhaps my pain was so that I could be a voice for others like me. As I try to complete my undergraduate degree in psychology, I would also carry out my charity work and pay for treatment for my failing digestive system. I know without a doubt that there is help for me out there-if I could just find it and pay for it.

Oprah, help me live my best life. I have realized that one cannot go through what I have been through and remain the same. As my soul and mind have elevated, so have my dreams and ambitions. I want to give the same strength and courage I have received from family and friends to those who might not be as fortunate as I have been.

I thank you for taking the time to read my story and I look forward to hearing from you.

With best wishes,

Rhoda Maina.

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After A Spirited Fight, Rhoda Maina dies.

Posted by Administrator on December 2, 2009

By Tony Karanja
Jambonewspot.com
 
The Late Rhoda Maina who passed away on December 1st 2009 at the Saint Joseph's Hospital In Atlanta, GA

The Late Rhoda Maina who passed away on December 1st 2009 at the Saint Joseph's Hospital In Atlanta, GA

Rhoda Maina, the young lady who captured the hearts and minds of many Kenyans in the US has passed away at Saint Joseph’s  Hospital In Atlanta, GA.  Rhonda who was the daughter to Ken and Rachel Maina of Dunwoody, GA rested after waging a brave fight against illness on Tuesday, December 1, 2009 at the age of 26.

Rhoda was suffering from autoimmune diseases known as Lupus/Scleroderma which cause the body to attack itself and can target any organ. According to her childhood and longtime friend, Tanya Ranguma who spoke to Jambonewspot.com  from Atlanta, Rhoda passed away peacefully in the early hours of Tuesday. She was surrounded by her family at the time of her passing. Tanya was also at her bedside.

Tanya and Rhoda attended the same primary school (Kianda Primary) and were both at Alliance Girls High School before Rhoda transferred to Makini for Form 3 and 4.

Tanya signalled Rhoda’s last couple of days through a group she created in her support on Facebook called “Friends In Support Of Rhoda Maina”. The group had rapidly gained members who heard about Rhoda’s story and her brave battle with this illness.

On November 30th, she sent out a group email  informing members that Rhoda was in critical condition and that doctors has stopped treatment. In her message she wrote that doctors had only given Rhoda hours to live and that Rhoda had asked those who were following her progress to remain strong and that she was ready to go.

On December 1st, Tanya sent out the message announcing her passing and the end of a long journey. Tanya who had flown from Philadelphia to be alongside her friend recalled that Rhoda was in so much pain the night before. The nurses would be called upon to check on Rhoda frequently hours after doctors had given her a few hours to live. “She finally drifted to sleep at around 3 am or 4 am,” Tanya said. She passed away a few hours later at around 7 am.

Friends and well wishers alike jammed the Saint Joseph’s Hospital moments after the news of her death broke. “I was pleasantly surprised by the support shown by the community and how many people her story had touched”, remarked Tanya. “The hospital was packed with people who jumped from their beds upon hearing the tragic news”, she added. The Facebook  page dedicated to her was also flooded with messages of condolences as the news of her demise continued to be received.

Rhoda had been receiving treatment at the Immune Recovery Foundation Clinic based in Atlanta, Georgia, where she was getting alternative medicine to stabilize the immune system. In 2008 alone, Rhoda was hospitalized seven times.  

Her immune system had been weakened and she required constant attention. According to Tanya, Rhoda kept in constant communications with members of the “Friends In Support Of Rhoda Maina” Facebook page and her spirits were always uplifted by the messages she received from members and other well wishers.

“She was always online communicating with members of the group. Every message she received from members many of whom she did not know, uplifted her spirits and kept her going”, Tanya told jambonewspot. “She was online everyday other than the last two weeks when her condition began to deteriorate”,  she added. Tanya said that some of the members Rhoda kept in constant communication with had not received a reply to their messages on Facebook in the final two weeks and had began enquiring frantically about her condition.

Her Family will be accompanying Rhoda back home for the funeral. Tentative arrangements include a funeral service at the All Saints Cathedral on Tuesday, December 15th, 2009 (exact time to be provided) and later on, the funeral will take place in Kiharu, Muranga District.  More updates will be posted here as we receive them.

Funeral arrangements are ongoing and family and friends are calling on relatives, friends and people of good will to support them in meeting these expenses. There will be a  memorial service for Rhoda and there after a fundraising event at:

Venue: Christ Harvester’s Church Int’l, Marietta, GA

               (CHMI – Apostle Karanja’s Church)

Address: 4341 Dallas Hwy, Marietta, GA 30064.

Date:   Sunday, December 06, 2009,

Time:  2.00 PM.

(Refreshments will be served)

Family and friends will be meeting daily at the Maina’s home from 6:30pm to 9:00pm. Their address is:

113 Summer Crossing, Atlanta GA 30350.

However, there will be a prayer service today December 2, 2009 and Friday December 4, 2009 at Christ Harvester’s Church from 6:30pm to 9:00pm.

If unable to attend, please make your contribution to:

Ken Maina

Wachovia Bank, Atlanta GA

Account number:  1010258758504

Routing number:     061000227

Or donations can be dropped off at anytime at the Maina’s home.

For more information contact: Michael Karuu (404-395-6906), Leah Kamau (678-576-1416) or Ciru Mwangi (303-931-8381), Ken Maina (678-862-3140).

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‘Miracles’ and claims of baby-snatching – why is the Deya Ministry thriving in London?

Posted by Administrator on December 2, 2009

In happier times: Paul Otieno, his wife Jackline and their son Wilson, who was stabbed to death last week

In happier times: Paul Otieno, his wife Jackline and their son Wilson, who was stabbed to death last week

When the news that Paul Otieno was being held on suspicion of killing his three-year-old son reached Archbishop Gilbert Deya’s ministry last week, the congregation was shocked.

Otieno, 31, is a pivotal player in the ministry, running its successful global television channel.

He is also the adopted son of the Kenyan Archbishop infamous for claiming he is able to make infertile women conceive through the power of his prayer.

Gilbert Deya, 57, who has five children of his own, had brought up Otieno – actually his nephew – as his own son since his brother Wilson died when Otieno was a young boy.

Otieno, who came to the UK as an 18-year-old in 1996, is currently under police guard in hospital after his son, also called Wilson, was found stabbed to death last Monday at the family flat on the Lynton estate, Bermondsey.

Otieno’s wife Jackline sustained a knife wound to the neck, although their 17-month-old daughter was unharmed. Otieno suffered stab wounds to the neck, chest and stomach and remains seriously ill.

The incident has left the church reeling, not least because it shines an unwelcome spotlight on the Deya Ministry, behind which lies an extraordinary story of fantasy, alleged fraud and child trafficking.

Set in the heart of south London, it is a tale which involves players now under investigation by the police in both Nairobi and London.

It is still unclear what happened at Otieno’s flat last week, although there are rumours of marital tension.

What is certain is that he and Jackline play a central role in the life of the Deya Ministry – the television channel is key in expanding the church’s brand worldwide.

According to Gakuru wa Macharia, who wrote the Archbishop’s biography, Deya and the Miracle Babies, “Otieno is trusted by Deya more than his own sons. Jackline is the accountant at the ministry so Deya has more trust in them over his financial affairs than he does with his own children.

“In turn, because they were fully dependent on the church for money, they are more loyal to him than his own children.

“They are also more respectful to him than his sons and are integral to the operations of the church.”

Within the ministry his reputation is good. A member of the church who has known Otieno “for many years” describes him as a “mildmannered guy, quiet and well-collected”.

And despite reports that he was drinking as a result of marital problems, the source added: “He never drank alcohol. These reports are just not true.”

Before last week’s tragic events Otieno was involved in building what members claim is the fastest-growing religious brand in the UK.

There are 34,000 members of Deya’s church, and the TV channel Deya Network Broadcasting, which goes out on Sky, reaches a huge audience.

Allegations of trafficking babies and an extradition warrant against Deya have done little to stop thousands pouring through the doors of his ministries.

They continue to believe, ever since the birth in December 1998 of the first “miracle baby”, a boy born to a Stockwell woman whose fallopian tubes had previously been severed by doctors, that Deya has a spiritual power to make infertile women conceive.

Yet since 2004, Gilbert Deya has been subject to an extradition warrant issued by the Kenyan authorities.

He is wanted on five counts of abducting babies, illegally registering them and trafficking them to the UK.

His wife Mary and two other women – Miriam Nyeko and Rose Kiserem – were jailed for two years in May 2007 by a Nairobi court for stealing a child.

Mary completed her sentence last year but is now the subject of a fresh child trafficking investigation in Nairobi.

Just how many children may have been abducted remains a mystery. In 2004, 21 “miracle babies” were seized from Mrs Deya and another suspect, prompting 53 sets of parents to come forward claiming their children had been stolen.

Meanwhile, to resist his extradition warrant, Deya has claimed asylum in this country on the grounds that he would be politically persecuted in Kenya.

But video footage handed to the Standard appears to seriously undermine his argument. It shows Deya introducing Raila Odinga, now Kenya’s Prime Minister, to Liberal Democrat MP Simon Hughes at his church in December 2007.

This video suggests that rather than being the target of sinister political forces in Kenya, Deya is a man well connected to the upper echelons of power in Nairobi.

He also appears to have done his best to make influential connections in the UK.

In 2002 he was introduced as a representative of Kenyan churches to the Queen and Prince Philip as part of the monarch’s Golden Jubilee celebrations.

But not everyone he comes across is convinced.

“Deya’s brand of religion is a combination of traditional African beliefs peppered with threats of curses and exorcism,” says Gakuru wa Macharia, who describes the church as akin to a cult and has received death threats since publishing his book on Deya.

“Because there is no fixed regulation of ‘charismatic’ and spiritual churches, and many of the African churches such as Deya’s fall into this category, becoming a pastor requires simply the ambition to become one.

“Many of the ‘bishops’ and ‘archbishops’ have achieved their status by buying or being favoured by those who own or run the ordaining organisations and do so simply for business reasons.”

Deya, who lives in “an inner sanctum” in the church, is now widely reported to be a millionaire despite having arrived in the UK in 1996 on a missionary’s visa with barely enough money to rent a preaching room.

Figures released by the Charity Commission show that in 2007 the total income for the Gilbert Deya Ministry was £1,174,309 (figures for 2008 are currently overdue).

It is Deya’s capacity to harness the power of modern multi-media that offers the best explanation for the ministry’s growing income.

His website offers “miracle” products such as cotton handkerchiefs, olive oil and prayer sheets, which Deya claims have been used to “unbelievably heal” the incurable, and asks members to make a minimum £2 a month standing order to an account at Barclays Bank in Hammersmith.

“Those who join the church are first threatened by curses or misfortunes that will befall them if they don’t give money,” says Gakuru. “They are told the money is to break this curse.”

And then there is the TV channel which Otieno ran. The preaching room inside the Deya Ministry resembles more of a TV studio than a traditional place of worship.

A bank of lights is trained on the pulpit and cameras filming the preacher relay pictures to an editing suite in the middle of the room.

Much like a live television gameshow, at about 8pm on a prayers night, a “warm-up” preacher will whip up the congregation into a frenzy before the star act – Archbishop Deya – makes his appearance.

Anyone with Sky television can witness the thrice-weekly Deya Broadcasting Network’s miracle hour on channel 595.

Deya, dressed in a sober black suit, rocks back and forth as members of the congregation step forward.

Baying by the congregation appears to create a magnetism between the archbishop and those seeking the miracle cure and Deya uses this energy to create the suggestion that the moment he touches the “patient”, his spiritual force, like an electrical jolt, will drive the affliction away.

Earlier this year Ofcom issued Deya Broadcasting Network with a reprimand after it broadcast footage of a woman being “cured” of breast cancer.

Making such a claim without clearly stating that the woman in question was also receiving medical treatment for her condition contravenes its guidelines.

Ofcom acted when a viewer, disturbed by a scene showing the woman removing bandages around her breast after the “miracle” had been performed, made an official complaint.

Despite repeated attempts to contact Gilbert Deya, the archbishop did not answer our calls. The question is: how has he managed to remain in this country, evading justice in Kenya, for five years?

In December 2007, the then Home Secretary Jacqui Smith ordered his extradition. In October last year an appeal against extradition was dismissed. He sought leave to appeal to the House of Lords but this failed.

Deya has now been granted a stay on the grounds that his human rights would be infringed by conditions in Kenyan prisons.

This is despite the fact that Amnesty International has no records of maltreatment in Kenyan prisons.

The Home Office is currently investigating these claims and until the Home Secretary makes a decision, Deya is free to continue preaching in the UK.

Home Secretary Alan Johnson may now want to ponder the tragedy that befell Otieno’s family this week when he considers Archbishop Deya’s extradition case.

But he may also want to consider the plight of the scores of parents in Kenya who have had their babies stolen and suspect this highly charismatic religious fanatic had a hand in their disappearance.

Story by  Oliver Wadeson-This is London

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