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Incest common in teens, says report

Posted by jambonewspot on December 16, 2009

Villagers of Karia Watuka in Kieni East division of Nyeri North District demonstrate at a chief's camp in 2007, against increased rape and incest cases with school pupils as victims. A new study released today indicates incest is rife among Kenyan teenagers. FILE

Villagers of Karia Watuka in Kieni East division of Nyeri North District demonstrate at a chief's camp in 2007, against increased rape and incest cases with school pupils as victims. A new study released today indicates incest is rife among Kenyan teenagers. FILE

By KIBIWOTT KOROSS 

Incest is rife among Kenyan teenagers, a new study has revealed.

According to the National Council for Children’s Service, adolescents admitted having sex with close relatives like uncles and aunts.

Most vulnerable are girls aged 10-15, but older and younger girls are also defiled with most cases unreported.

The research, conducted between 1990 and 2008 in 45 institutions countrywide, says boys and girls engage in multiple sexual relationships, but their knowledge on strategies to prevent pregnancy and infection is limited.

“Most students had unprotected sex with their peers and some have had sex with uncles, aunts and sugar daddies,” says the report.

The report says boys under the care of househelps and relatives are more vulnerable as many parents assume boys are not sexually abused.
A report released by the Centre for the Study of Adolescents in October said teenage girls were selling their bodies for airtime, chips and even sanitary pads.

They were also said to be sleeping with different partners — some admitted having as many as six in six months.

The research says that irresponsible sexual behaviour among adolescents may not be attributed to lack of adequate awareness of HIV and Aids, but to factors like assessment of one’s partner’s status and feelings of prestige.

Parents were again in the spotlight for delegating parental roles to institutions of learning and househelps.

Speaking at the official launch of the report in Nairobi, Gender, Children and Social Services minister Esther Murugi accused parents of poor parental care.

“Responsibility is left to teachers and househelps and this is how our children are destroyed,” she said.

Ms Murugi said that although the report did not include children’s homes, her ministry had found that several of them were dens of child defilement and cash-cows for unscrupulous individuals.

Ms Murugi said her ministry had stopped issuing licences to children’s homes until all the registered 800 are vetted.

Another report released by The Cradle last week said unmonitored use of technology was exposing youngsters to harm, with most accessing social networking sites through mobile phones.

Source: Daily NATION

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Dad Delivers Baby By Following Google Instructions

Posted by jambonewspot on December 16, 2009

DESPERATE dad Leroy Smith resorted to Google with the request “how to deliver a baby” when his wife went into labour.

He was so clueless when wife Emma suddenly started to give birth at home he opted to use the internet.

Mr Smith called a midwife for advice but before she arrived Emma, 25, began having powerful contractions.

So the 29-year-old grabbed hold of his BlackBerry, accessed the internet and sought help from search engine Google for step-by-step instructions.

And after following the detailed guide on the internet’s wikiHow Emma safely gave birth to daughter 6lb 11oz Mahalia Merita Angela Smith.

Nervous

 

Five minutes after the delivery the midwife arrived to cut the umbilical cord of their fourth child.

Today proud Mr Smith said: “The midwife had checked Emma earlier in the day but contractions started up again at about 8pm so we called the midwife to come back.

“But then everything happened so quickly I realised Emma was going to give birth.

“I wasn’t sure what I was going to do so I just looked up the instructions on the internet using my BlackBerry.

“I was very, very nervous. I never thought I’d actually have to do it.

“The BlackBerry told me that when I saw the head, I had to support it.

“And when the baby actually comes out, I had to place her on Emma’s chest, then covered them both with a blanket and make sure they were both comfortable and relaxed.

“It was amazing. It was just us two in the house because the other kids were with their grandma – Emma’s mum.

“The midwife arrived about five minutes after the birth and told me I’d done good. She clamped the umbilical cord and I cut it.”

Mr Smith, a security guard, added: “I couldn’t believe I had done it and Emma was such a soldier, no pain relief or anything.

“I knew the midwife was on her way but Emma went into labour very quickly, the whole thing only took about 40 minutes.”

Leroy said before the birth of Mahalia on December 1, his wife disapproved of his BlackBerry because he was always playing with it but now she has “changed her tune”.

He said: “She doesn’t mind the BlackBerry now. I’ve told everyone the story about a million times and my other kids are all really proud of it too.”

Proud mum-of-four Emma, of Leytonstone, East London, said: “It’s incredible that Leroy delivered our first daughter. The other three are boys.

“I said to him ‘you’re Leroy Smith, you can do anything’. I had wanted a home birth anyway.

“And thank God for the BlackBerry, I’m never going to moan at Leroy about being on the phone again.”

 Source. The Sun -UK

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Chris Ndeti: Soulful passion

Posted by jambonewspot on December 16, 2009

By Alice Wynn
Chris Ndeti who is drawing comparisons to Tracy Chapman

Chris Ndeti who is drawing comparisons to Tracy Chapman

AUGUSTA, GA – Chris Ndeti started playing the violin at age 11, but when a substitute teacher in her orchestra class walked in one day with an acoustic guitar, something clicked.

“I was just fascinated from that point on,” she said.

Kids will be kids, though, and her fervor quickly died down. She didn’t pick up a guitar again until she was in college. Majoring in music therapy, it was part of her required course of study. It was also then that she started taking her singing seriously.

“Singing has always been a passion that I liked to do and it wasn’t until I started playing guitar that I was actually able to manifest something into it, really focus on finding my voice,” she said.

Being both a singer-songwriter and a black woman, comparisons to Tracy Chapman are inevitable.

“When I first started playing, it used to bother me,” she said. “I’m not her — I think she’s awesome, definitely one of my favorite artists ­— but as far as my style, I wanted it to be something different.”

That style is something definitely different; it’s what Ndeti terms “rockin’ soul.”

“The voice is definitely a soul voice, but the music is a little bit of rock, a little bit of funk,” she said.

Ndeti has a variety of influences, including Aretha Franklin, Stevie Wonder, the Temptations, Al Green and Otis Redding. But on the rock side, she cites the Beatles, Radiohead and Janis Joplin. She also throws a little bit of Bach in the mix and the rhythmic beats of the music her father, who is from Kenya, listened to.

“I’ve got a lot of influence coming from a lot of angles that I do try to incorporate,” she said.
She is also a big fan of ’80s music that she mixes into her set, which she says she pays homage to, not necessarily covers note for note.

“I like to put a little bit of a different twist on songs that I play,” she said. “I’ll do a song by a popular artist but not in the way you would hear it on the radio.”

She says her original music is both “fun” and “memorable” and, in her songwriting, she draws from what’s happening around her, not just setting out to write a song about a subject.

“Everything inspires me. I might hear a commercial on the radio or a conversation with someone or someone else’s conversation, and they’ll say something that I’ll pick up on and say, ‘Oh, that would be good in a song’ and I try to either write around it or try to incorporate it just on what I hear and what I like.”

“I can’t sit down and say I’m going to write a song about loving this person or write about a hardship that I’ve had,” she added. “I have to be in a mind frame where it almost just hits me.”

Ndeti is not only a performer, she is also one of the lucky few whose full-time job revolves around music. She teaches guitar at the Jessye Norman School of the Arts, where this year is the first time they have offered guitar classes. And her job as recreation therapist at the VA Medical Center calls for musical interaction with the residents who suffer from Alzheimer’s and dementia.

“Not all aspects of living go at one time,” she said. “You want to focus on their strengths and being able to maintain them for as long as you can. It’s definitely a challenge but it’s a positive challenge.”

Music is a constant in Ndeti’s life, one she would be doing regardless of the rewards.

“It’s not something I can just turn away from. It’s more than just a hobby for me. It’s my lifestyle,” she said. “It’s in every aspect of my life. It’s in my occupation. It’s in my hobbies and my passions. It’s in my teaching. It’s in my beliefs. Even if I wanted to I couldn’t get away from it.”

Chris Ndeti
The Fox’s Lair
Friday, December 18
9 p.m.
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Source: http://metrospirit.com/index.php?

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